solving a "moral dilemma"

good advice in SLAA chatroom today.

I have initiated an affair. I had a date and sex with a woman who doesn't know I'm married. She is a foreigner and I offered her an opportunity to go backpacking. She really wants to. She had sex with me and we are supposed to backpack this weekend. I feel guilty and I want to break it off, but part of me wants to fullfill the promise to take her.

I got counselled away from this in a private message in the chatroom. It was a woman talking to me - maybe that helps. I always get the best advice in SLAA. I think it's the best program for me.